Listen closely, this post is going to tell one all about how to read minds. Oh, if only that were true. We wish that we could understand everything going through the head of our matches. When we meet that hot boy or girl on the personals site we wish we knew just how to ensure we get into their pants and into their heads and hearts as well. In long term relationships too, we wish we understood our opposite a little bit better. Though there is no magical spell which can let us know what the other is thinking, there are some general tips to understanding the opposite sex.
Men, when meeting women for dating the best thing to do is listen and complement her. Praise her shoes, which are something many women are obsessed with but far too few men even notice. Pay attention to other little details like changes in hair style and so on. Be sure to listen carefully to what she says — women appreciate a man who can set aside his ego and concentrate on their lives too, and treat their issues as important. Never belittle the importance of one’s partner’s work or hobbies or passions as this is a sure fire way to see their ass as they walk out the door, rather then bent over one’s bed as one wishes!
Women sometimes over look the similarities in the needs of both genders. Flatter his ego and let him know he’s hand some or good looking and one will keep him coming back for some time with the knowledge that one is attracted to him. Pay attention to visual cues — every woman has something attracting they can emphasize about themselves and this is the key to keeping a man’s interest. One does not need to be model beautiful or look like a Barbie doll, but find the ways to emphasize what makes one attractive and unique and one will be more successful at online dating than ever.
