When you are single and looking for love you are obviously free to date as many people as you want, but keep in mind that it is still considered bad form and to advertise it even with your buddies is extremely bad taste. There are a few things to keep in mind to prevent any unnecessary drama. When you are Dating always be sure to employ procedures from an operational security manual.
This will make sure one date doesn’t find out about the other. While you aren’t exactly doing anything wrong it is still a gray area that is best kept in the shadows. You don’t want to lose two potential sex partners because one found out, got mad and ranted to the others. That will just make you a dead man! So be careful and use some common sense and caution in your routine. Don’t take one date to the same place you just took another. This runs too high of a risk that you’ll be recognized by the staff or someone there who might mention something to that date. Then there will uncomfortable questions and situations and you may be tempted to lie which just causes even more problems. Vary your routine and stay away from places you might be recognized. Then be careful about the arrangements you have with your dates. Be extra careful about inviting them back to your place. The last thing you need is to be getting some hot number in bed and another decides to spontaneously drop by your pad. Then you’re busted in the worst way possible.
You can avoid this by spending more time at her place. You’ll have to be careful about this so you don’t end up acting in ways that tip off your dates to what you are up to or worse yet have them suspecting that you are married. If you’re found out be honest and respectful and expect that it may go badly.