A lot of people have preconceived notions about adult dating services or porn related sites. They think that you can just basically hang your cock out and some pussy will run along and jump on it. Pump it and they will cum is just a imagine adult sites would like their members to have. It’s not that simple or easy nor would you want it to be.
Politeness will still get you everywhere even in the adult Personals where sex is on the menu. If you remember to follow basically the same rules you would with any other more mainstream site then you’re off to a good start. Try a little small talk first and always remember to be respectful. If someone is interested in taking things farther with you they’ll let you know. Then you can be as dirty and as naughty as you want to be. First though you have to get to that stage and you won’t get to that stage if you treat someone like trash from the get go. Ask yourself if you’d like someone to be disrespectful of you? Obviously the answer is no. Even if you are looking to get just a casual hook up going you’d still probably appreciate someone charming you up a little first. With that in mind then treat others the same way. This doesn’t mean you have to be distant or anything like that but when you just present yourself as polite and easy going without any presumptions you are making yourself a very attractive offer for someone. Then you are very likely to attract the kind of attention you want.
When you show that person your an okay guy to be around they’ll likely move things along pretty fast and before you know it you’ll be getting all the sex you can handle. Do yourself a favor and make the Personals as easy and simple as it should be. Why make life hard for yourself by being foolish? Life is hard enough as it is.