For people who are single and looking on the Dating scene it has always been a question of when first time sex is okay. It has always been nominally part of the Dating etiquette to assume that if a guy buys dinner and pays for everything then there should be something back. It isn’t always sex right off but could be a kiss or some fooling around in the middle. This is naturally provided that the girl is attracted to the guy and he has acted as a gentlemen. It’s also assumed that if the guy is pushy then all bets are off.
If however he has done everything right and hasn’t made any assumptions then it is typically incumbent upon the girl to do something. This is as true with gay and lesbian dating as well.
Is sex on the first date okay? Some people say that it is perfectly okay to do so on the first date while others say that it should always be postponed until the second or third or more. The when is usually a personal choice that relies on the basic chemistry and commonality of the people. Generally speaking however it is also accepted that a girl should put something up on the table if the guy has done everything he is supposed to.
Having an adult encounter is perfectly okay on the first date if there is a powerful enough chemistry. If the two people really hit things off and it all sounds great then some fooling around should be at least on order. If there is just an okay feeling then a mild kiss on the cheek or even just a thank you is acceptable as well. While no one should do anything that they are very uncomfortable there should be a governing factor that the fellow has earned at least a little something if he has done his part and the girl is not opposed to the idea.