What is sex? Stupid question? Apparently not. A recent study from the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University revisited this question – which they first asked participants in 1999 during the presidential sex scandal – and found that people’s definitions didn’t quite match up.
Back in 1999, for example, college students disagreed on whether oral sex was actually sex. This time around, researchers made the study even more detailed and more comprehensive and found the results were subsequently even more confusing. “Throwing the net wider, with a more representative sample, only made it more confusing and more complicated,” said research associate Brandon Hill. “People were even less consistent across the board. A surprising number of older men did not consider penile-vaginal intercourse to be sex”
Say what now? Let’s repeat that line: “A surprising number of older men did not consider penile-vaginal intercourse to be sex.” Um, ok. What is penile-vaginal intercourse then?
Following this logic, when people search action in online sex dating, they should not say they are looking for sex, they should say they are simply looking for ‘penile-vaginal intercourse.’
Here’s some of the results of the survey, which was conducted via telephone and included 486 Indiana residents:
* 95 percent said penile-vaginal intercourse is sex. However, only 77 percent of men ages 65 and older would define it as such.
* 81 percent said penile-anal intercourse is sex. This drops to 77 percent for men ages 18-29.
* 72 percent say oral sex is sex.
Many men struggle when it comes to leaving in the morning after having sex with an online personal they just met the night before. People join online dating sites for one-night stands, they’re great and all. But once the alcohol and adrenaline has worn off you sometimes find yourself in a very interesting yet awkward situation. Never worry about that though, because you’ll get over the awkwardness once you’ve made it home. However, you need to find a way to bail that leaves you looking charming which is sometimes impossible.
When you’ve woken up and are prepared for the walk of shame, play the nice guy. See if there’s something you can do in the kitchen, like cook her breakfast. She may consider you a really suave guy or all her friends will want to jump you. Although if you don’t know how to cook an egg don’t offer, you’re not going to get in her pants again if you set her kitchen on fire.
If you plan on leaving as soon as you wake up let her know that you’re going to go if you see some potential with her and leave your phone number or some way for her to get a hold of you. Sure, you’re not going to leave much of an impression on her so only go this route if you have to work or have an appointment.
Who doesn’t enjoy a good morning fuck? There is nothing that says you can only have sex with her once. Leave her with something to think about all day and rock her world in the morning if she’s up for it. Just because you banged her twice doesn’t mean you have to ever talk to her again, it’ll just leave the two of you very satisfied with the time you’ve spent together.
If you want to be a coward sneak out of her place while she’s sleeping but be prepared to be called every name in the book. Sure, sometimes chicks are down right crazy and you need to get the fuck out of there. You’re going to want to wake up before she does to make a clear escape, just have a good excuse prepared if she catches you, or climb out the bathroom window.
Don’t fool yourself into thinking that women don’t sit around and think about naughty things too, because they are experts when it comes to thinking dirty fantasies and they don’t waste their time on the traditional. Here are just a few fantasies that may surprise you to know about women. Some women even spend just as much time as men do hoping that their partner will put their fantasies to practice.
Women love domination, they love a strong man who can pick them up and carry them away. But surprisingly one of the top fantasies women have is for that same strong man to beg for sex. It revolves around you worshiping her body and begging for attention. She wants to be in control. However, some women also enjoy their partner who isn’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. She wants you to pin her down, run your fingers through her hair and pull her head back and sink your teeth into her shoulder.
The old school Britney Spears isn’t just a fantasy for men. Women love the idea of dressing up like a school girl and prancing around in front of you for your pleasure. Some will play the role where they don’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give her a spanking. Women crave a spanking from their man because it shows a mild side of dominance and it always leads to hot sex.
A lot of women fantasize about having sex with a stranger, but many don’t engage in random sex. They do enjoy thinking about no-strings attached but are persuaded away from it because of self-produced guilt. This desire appeals to her naughty side, the kinky girl you rarely see in day light.
Today’s society has made it easier and more common for straight women to get down and dirty with another women. Female threesomes rarely involved any playtime for you with the other chick, you’re job with this fantasy is to be the voyeur until she insists on more. Let her enjoy the best of both worlds without having to share. She also always fantasizes about being adored by two gorgeous men. They are of course straight and are only interested in her, this threesome may be as innocent as having sex with one dude as she performs oral sex on the other. This is very taboo for many women which makes it more fun and exciting.
To have amazing sex you need to continuously change your tactics. Every sexual experience can feel fun, exciting and refreshingly new if you commit to introducing the unknown into your sexual encounters. I’m going to tell you some sex tricks that will make you feel like you’re 18 years old again with the same sexual energy as a youth. Thrust yourself inside of her in a stirring motion, have you ever really thought about how you enter a vagina? Sex experts always discuss different positions and the importance of foreplay but never touch down on how you should thrust inside of her. Next time, thrust upwards towards her stomach, this will help you find her G-spot. If you slip your cock in a circular motion, she’s going to be begging for more.
The advantage of heat during intercourse is that the blood flow increases, creating arousal to whatever body part that’s exposed. The sensation than spreads to other areas of the body and sometimes takes over entirely. Try breathing hot air into different areas of your partners body, you may find a hidden sexual area.
Having a very strong ending is just as important as the amount of energy you put into the sex. By drawing out the orgasm she will learn how to support you fully when you climax. When you’re about to blow have her lightly stroke your cock or grasp your testicles in the same rhythm as your contractions to get every last drop.
Kama sutra leads to very intension orgasms because it encourages your partner to fully focus on the moment. Practice sexually meditation during foreplay and penetration. Listen to the sound of your skin and pay attention to the development of each sensation. By focusing and concentrating on the motion and act of sex it’ll intensify both of your experiences.
Use your cock as a dildo, it’s difficult for many woman to orgasm from penetration and some need clitoral stimulation. Put pressure on her clit with your cock. She’s going to enjoy masturbating in front of you and the fact that she’s pleasuring you is going to get her very hot. The two of you will be very turned on before you have sex.